Why kind of flowers should I give to a friend who's parent passed away?

One of my friend's is having a funeral this weekend for her dad. My husband thinks we should get her and her family some flowers. She is Christian; what kind of flowers are appropriate? Is there a certain colour I should NOT give?





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Why kind of flowers should I give to a friend who's parent passed away?
It doesn't really matter. It's your thoughtfulness that counts, so a mix of flowers, in different colours, would be fine. I've seen lots of funeral arrangements, in all types of colours -- some mixed, some are just red %26amp; white, and some with only one type of flower (carnations or roses, for example), while others have a mix. The main point is that you're showing your concern and sympathy, and whatever you choose will be greatly appreciated. I'm attaching a link that show a variety of colours and flower types, in case you need some ideas (click on the photos to enlarge them.) Also, flowers do not need to be given as an "arrangement" (set in the foamy oasis, in a basket). It is perfectly OK to give flowers in a vase.
Reply:What is the appropriate flower arrangement for a funeral?


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Reply:Just go to a florist. They know what is appropriate. Most people select white flowers of some kind. However, any arrangement will give the family some comfort that you thought of them.
Reply:No, any kind of flowers would be lovely, there's no prohibition as to what color. Check with the florist, give them a price range, and see what they can put together for the amount of money you want to spend. Other people prefer to give a nice plant instead of cut flowers, because the plant will probably last longer.





But you might want to check with the funeral home to see if the family even wants flowers. Some families think that paying for flowers that just die in a day or so is a waste of money, and would rather see the money donated in the deceased's name to an organization that the deceased was active in or that helped them.





Either way, it's very thoughtful of you.
Reply:white chrysanthemum could be a good choice.
Reply:Is she a close friend? Lillies are always pretty (however--EVERYONE send peace lillies, so maybe a different, prettier kind). also, when my dad passed away--a good friend sent an apple tree that we were able to plant in the yard--kind of testament to Dad and everytime i see it-it makes me smile and think of my Dad and the friends that sent it.
Reply:Not in the US, at least. I guess you're not from the US, though -- but I've never heard of any of the Anglo countries having problems with certain colors of flowers. Certainly not because the people are Christian!





You call the florist and tell them what you want them for. If you try to order something entirely inappropriate, they'll tell you.





I used to think flowers at funerals were silly, but they aren't. They're so beautiful, and give pleasure to so many, and a tiny bit of heart's-ease to the bereaved.
Reply:Any flowers would be appreciated. You may want to avoid flowers that are known for causing allergies in alot of people. The gesture, whatever kind, I'm sure will be most appreciated. If you can't afford a grand bouquet, get something simple and add a thoughtful card with it.
Reply:Star gazing Lillie's are very beautiful.
Reply:silly rabbit. I always prefer giving donations to charity.


What did this person die from? Heart disease? Then donation to heart foundation would be nice.


Cancer, then donation to cancer research would be nice. Etc.
Reply:white flower and lilies are the best choice
Reply:A plant may be a nice choice. They last longer then flowers.

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