My soon to be mother in law thinks cali lillies are funeral flowers!?

I want to use cali lillies for my wedding they are my favorite flower but my soon to be mother in law hates them.... I have to admit for the most part she has really good taste what do you think?

My soon to be mother in law thinks cali lillies are funeral flowers!?
Let her have it. I have been married three times. FIrst one, no cake just did it in SanDiego by a pool and took the flowers out of someone's yard. Second time hubby's dad was a preacher, hi mother chose everything and railroaded us all over. Third time, hubby's mother came into town, and insisted on miracle whip ranch dip (gag) and a cake she had to buy...she left 3 days later. No one ate her dip and the cake, who cares in the end, as long as she lives far away. THe flowers you are asking about are lovely. Put them on her grave when she dies, and pick the flowers she wants. And act like it is no big deal. Just don't let her in your bed the night of the honeymoon. Chalk it up to being easy going.





Or tell her to go fly a kite and establish the relationship from the start....no.
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Reply:They used to be funeral flowers only, but nowadays weddings aren't as traditional as they were. Anything goes! I used Lillies at my wedding despite my own mother's warnings against them, and I'm glad I did.
Reply:Sweetie, it isn't your future mother-in-law's wedding. It's yours. It's YOUR day. Do as YOU like, and not as everyone else thinks you should do!
Reply:Whose wedding is it? Yours or your future mother in laws? Tell her opinions are appreciated but you're going to get married, not her, she can have whatever flowers she wants at her wedding.
Reply:Have your future M-I-L look at a few florist shops and the arrangements they prepare for funerals. If you accept her POV, you won't have a single flower at your wedding.
Reply:I love cali lillies and if you want to use them in your wedding use them. This isn't your mother in laws Wedding tell her that is what you want and that is that, no more arguments. Its your day don't let her ruin it!!!!
Reply:it's your wedding..but she is right, as beautiful as they are...they are used at ALOT of funerals...can you find something similar? I am not saying they ARE funeral flower, that would be like saying roses are ONLY used for love....But they do use them alot at funerals. Sorry if i just confused ya i been working on this damn computer for 8 hours straight..LOL Good luck with your wedding...And Congrats
Reply:i like the flowers but they are funeral flowers
Reply:Calililies are Beautiful flowers and I think that they would be a gorgeous addition to your wedding! They are used for funerals, but not solely. best of luck %26amp; wishes!