have never had to go to one before fortunatly. a friend said today about flowers tho, i would rather give money to the hospice he was in, am doing a fundraising event for it as well, but dont want to go with none if thats the normal thing to do? help!
Is it normal to take flowers to a funeral?
First of all, I'm sorry about your friend, and I think it's great to do some fundraising. I think the correct procedure is to send flowers through a florist with a card - the only time I have taken flowers to a funeral myself is when a family member has died. Then I have picked some from my garden and taken them along and put them on the coffin. I remember my mother-in-law saying that she wanted no flowers at all, but people sent them anyway, and I suppose the sight of a coffin arriving at a cemetery or crematorium with no flowers on it at all would be odd and sad, but that might just be tradition, or a personal view. Usually funeral flowers go to an old people's home afterwards, where they do give great pleasure. I remember when my mother died I went to 'view' her at the funeral directors the day before her burial, and I put a few, very special flowers inside her coffin. (Freesias, mainly, so I can never see them without remembering those minutes).
What a long answer! Hope it helps.
Reply:You normally select an arrangement (it doesn't have to be a wreath!) at your local florist. Tell them what you want to be written on the little card that goes with the flowers. They then usually send them on to the funeral themselves. They can also advise you on an appropriate arrangement. I would probably send flowers as well as fund raise. Unless the person who is deceased SPECIFICALLY SAID they wanted people to give money to the hospice or some other good cause instead of buying flowers. For eg, my late grandad said to make a donation to "Water Aid" (a charity) instead. Hope this helps :)
Reply:you should send flowers or a plant
Reply:Yes it's "normal". All civilizations placed flowers on the body and on the grave-site. Same reason we give flowers to each other when alive. A reverence for beauty of life, fragile it blooms and it is then gone, so it is in respect, a token of love and gratitude for the beauty and joy enjoyed by us in having known the person in life.
Reply:Flowers should be ordered at a florists and sent to the funeral director (Undertaker). It would not be normal to take flowers with you. It seems to me, it would be much more appropriate to donate any money to the hospice..
Reply:Nicki in this situation I would take one flower and place it with the other flowers after the service and then I would make my contribution to the hospice quietly without fuss.
This is a show of your respect and you're being helpful to the hospice at the same time.
I think single flowers out of plastic are much better and you can even find out what the persons fave flower was. That would be just LOVELY X
Reply:One doesn't physically take flowers to a funeral, they order them from a florist %26amp; the florist takes them to the funeral home. Many people send planters, instead of flowers, %26amp; many send gifts of money inside a sympathy card. There will be envelopes at the funeral home in the vestibule, to fill out for Hospice, or the choice of the family or the deceased.
Reply:Normally you do not take flowers or a wreath to the funeral. You usually have them so that the funeral director can display them before the mourners arrive.
Personally, I think flowers are waste of money and that a contribution to the person's charity would be more appropriate and useful. But it is a cultural and traditional thing to do.
Reply:YES flowers are normal
but raising money is good to ask family of the deceased what they prefer, or what the person who died would have wanted
Reply:Where i live, most people call ahead and have flowers delivered to the place where they are having the funeral. But money to the hospice would be a great idea i think!
Reply:Definately give the money to hospice in the decedent's name, and send a card explaining that you did that. The family would probably appreciate the gesture, and will have enough flowers from other loved ones!
Reply:No, you don't usually bring flowers to a funeral, since it isn't held at someone's home - they don't have a vase or anything to put the flowers in. Sometimes people will send flowers directly to the church or funeral, usually a very large wreath or spray of flowers, but this is pretty expensive and is rarely from an individual.
Mail a condolence card to the person's home, and make a contribution to the hospice.
Reply:If you were close to the family or the deceased, you can call a florist and have an arrangement sent to the funeral home. Don't bring them yourself, that's weird... for lack of a better word.
Donating to the hospice is a great idea! Many of them are underfunded and do such great work.
Reply:Normally people send wreaths via the flower shop, ie you order from the flower shop and they send it to the address. Some people ask that wreaths not be sent and donations to be made to a certain charity. In such a case, you can choose to or not to make the donation.
Reply:You should not turn up to the funeral with the flowers. If you want to send flowers you do it through a florist. Otherwise, perhaps in your card you could put a note in that you made a donation to the Hospice
Reply:Sorry about your friend. It is not necessery to take or send flowers. What you are doing is great. The family will appreciate what you are doing. Good luck with the fundraising.
Reply:I am sure the guest of honour , the desist would like to think of you helping those that need care. so a donation to a hospice would be perfect answer. you might also think about a buying a tree if you would like
Reply:its totally up to you if you want to send flowers or not... its generally only family that take flowers to a funeral but if you do then you can lay them after the service...
from experience tho, someone making a donation to the hospice a relative of mine was in was more appreciated than flowers, after all hospices always need donations to help them keep up the good work they do,
sorry to hear about your loss, hope this helped with your decision
Reply:help the hospice
Reply:Yeah! It's perfectly fine. It just like a little gift. It looks kind.
Reply:You don't take them with you, usually--you have them sent to the funeral home/church where the funeral is or take them by before the funeral.
Usually, if somebody says they want you to donate to _______ in lieu of flowers, then donate, but my family and I still wind up bringing flowers almost every time (it's like, $50 for a pretty nice arrangement...see if you can go in on it with another friend or family member.)
You can have the hospice send a card to the survivors of the person who just died that says a donation was made by you in memory of that person. That would be nice...but I love flowers and I feel like it adds to the atmosphere to have as many as possible.
But, hey, if you feel like it would go further some other way, do that. It's hard to feel comfortable about...much of anything. It's a funeral...even when you've been to a ton of them like I have, it still makes you feel all weird and sad and uncomfortable and I feel like flowers are a way to, sorta, bridge the gap. Say what I might not be able to say.
But you're not gonna walk in holding them, anyway. So it's OK if you don't get them and spend your money elsewhere on another worthy cause.
Do what feels right. Forget about "normal"--it doesn't really apply here.
Reply:A lot of families ask for donations instead of flowers. The arrangements are normally done through the funeral directors, and flowers are send via florists.
Your friend's family will be overwhelmed at your fundraising event, and will not mind at all if you make a donation instead of flowers.
Reply:You should ask the family of the deceased is a normally a decision made by the deceased before theor passing or the family in organising the funeral. There are no set rules for this.
Reply:Take a card saying inside you donated money to the hospice in memory of....
Flowers don't have to be taken.
Reply:Generally the family will make a statement (either in the obituary, if you live in an area where they are common, or in a program for visitation, if not), whether or not they are requesting memorial donations or not. Memorial donations such as to Hospice are still perfectly acceptable as an alternative to flowers, however.
I grew up in the south, and for some reason, I just can't stand to see a funeral pass "without flowers." I recently attended a funeral where the family requested memorial donations to a certain organization; however, I attended the visitation early and saw that there were no flowers whatsoever, so I decided to send the family flowers instead. I saw the next day they'd only received four arrangements or so, even though it was a medium-sized funeral, so I felt that I'd made the right call.
I try to send a live plant rather than cut flowers, that way the family has a living tribute to their lost family member after the funeral.
Not really an answer to your question, but the oddest thing I've heard of in an obituary was that memorial donations be made to "hookers, midgets and firetrucks." This was requested in an obituary that was submitted to a small-town newspaper I worked for.
But just follow your heart...you'll know the right thing to do. That's what I always do in these situations.
Sorry for your loss.
Reply:you don't bring them. You get the florist to send the arrangement.
Reply:actually you should have the flowers sent to the funeral home prior to the funeral. though if you are doing all as you say you are a simple card to the family offering condolences along with the donation would suffice.
DO NOT arrive at the funeral home with flowers or a wreath in your hand. it is tacky this is a funeral not a wedding.
Reply:sure. dead people love flowers
Reply:normally take flowers
if the family dont want flowers it normally says on the funeral invite no flowers
Reply:No, every funeral I've been already had flowers. They were probably provided by the funeral home.
Reply:u dont take flowers! u take a wreath!
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Monday, May 11, 2009
What is the protocol for sending flowers to a funeral viewing?
When to send, how to address card
What is the protocol for sending flowers to a funeral viewing?
Send on the day of the viewing. If I am close to the family I put some thing more personal like, "We are so sorry for your loss. She will be missed. Your family is in our prayers." If I don’t know the family well and still want to express my sympathy, something simple like, "In Loving Memory." Put some sentiment that might help the family deal with their loss.
Reply:Get a contact number for a family member who is in charge, or the funeral service business itself. Hopefully they can give you an address. Contact a local florist, give them your order, and put them in touch with the contact person to arrange delivery. The earlier you do this, the better.
Reply:send them right away,some very beautiful flowers with a card saying(sorry for your loss.)
What is the protocol for sending flowers to a funeral viewing?
Send on the day of the viewing. If I am close to the family I put some thing more personal like, "We are so sorry for your loss. She will be missed. Your family is in our prayers." If I don’t know the family well and still want to express my sympathy, something simple like, "In Loving Memory." Put some sentiment that might help the family deal with their loss.
Reply:Get a contact number for a family member who is in charge, or the funeral service business itself. Hopefully they can give you an address. Contact a local florist, give them your order, and put them in touch with the contact person to arrange delivery. The earlier you do this, the better.
Reply:send them right away,some very beautiful flowers with a card saying(sorry for your loss.)
What types of flowers to send to a Chinese funeral?
My friend's father passed away recently and I want to get her family some condolence flowers. They are Chinese and quite auspicious. What type of flowers should I send? Is there another type of gift that would be more appropriate? Are certain colors of flowers inappropriate?
What types of flowers to send to a Chinese funeral?
hope this helps
Any color will do, except red. Black or dark color is more common than white. White is usually for the family only.
You can buy them some flowers, especially chrysanthnum, or other kind of flowers of yellow or white color, pink may do too, but never be red.
In some Chinese societies you're expected to give some donation (called "Bai jin", the number must be odd, never 100, make it 101, as it means that when you die, die yourself only, never die together, just avoid any even number.)
Reply:Not really sure, but chrysanthemums are usually an arrangement sent for this purpose.
Reply:White or yellow chrysanthemum. No red colours.
Reply:White flowers will do. White is the symbol of death in Buddhist culture.
What types of flowers to send to a Chinese funeral?
hope this helps
Any color will do, except red. Black or dark color is more common than white. White is usually for the family only.
You can buy them some flowers, especially chrysanthnum, or other kind of flowers of yellow or white color, pink may do too, but never be red.
In some Chinese societies you're expected to give some donation (called "Bai jin", the number must be odd, never 100, make it 101, as it means that when you die, die yourself only, never die together, just avoid any even number.)
Reply:Not really sure, but chrysanthemums are usually an arrangement sent for this purpose.
Reply:White or yellow chrysanthemum. No red colours.
Reply:White flowers will do. White is the symbol of death in Buddhist culture.
What are the most appropriate flowers for a funeral?
1. Consider the person
2. Price you can afford
3. Fragrance
4. Freshness of the flowers
Decide if you want to send a funeral spray or a flower arrangement or plant.
A funeral spray is attatched to a stand and usually taken to the grave site. It is the biggest and will stand out more at the funeral. The flowers are put into a block of wet foam. This type of arrangement does not last very long outside. The florist may be tempted to unload his oldest flowers. Also if there a lot of funeral sprays at the funeral, the funeral home may only bring a few to the grave site.
A nice flower arrangement will be at the funeral home and then usually taken to the home of the family. When you place your order specify that you want fresh flowers so that the arrangement will last a long time. A good flower shop will do this anyway but it doesn't hurt to let them know that you will want your money back if the arrangement doesn't last. You may want to use a credit card to place your order. Some flowers will last longer than others such as carnations, chrysanthemums, lillies and roses. Chrysantemums come in many forms which look like a full ball or like a daisy. Carnations have a light fragrance, chrysanthemums have none, lillies are very strong fragrance to the point of being overpowering and most florist roses don't have a fragrance. Florist roses have been bred to look good and the fragrance has been lost for most of them. Lillies and roses are the most expensive flowers. So a mixture of flowers is usually attractive and priced at the mid-range.
Plants are nice but not everyone can keep a plant alive. If they are able to keep it alive then they will remember your gift for a long time.
When my Dad died he asked that flowers not be sent and the money be donated to the upkeep of the small private cemetary that he was buried at. The immediate family had a funeral spray made so that there would be some flowers there. If a donation is made to a charity then you should send a card letting the family know of your gift.
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What are the most appropriate flowers for a funeral?
Lillie's are the best they are white which brings peace to human nature.
Reply:daisies
Reply:It depends on who's funeral it is and the time of year. I always buy the persons favourite flowers. I think of the flowers being for them, not the people attending the funeral. It can also make it more personal to add some small items to the flowers that symbolise something in the deceased life. A small toy if it is a child (hope that is not the case), a picture or anything that links you and the deceased.
Reply:I always send the deceased's favortie flower in their memory. I have seen lilies and roses in arrangements. Some people have even sent houseplants.
Reply:Llies
Reply:depends on your relationship with the person.
if its a friend/co-worker/neighbor pink roses or carnations
if its a love one red roses
if its a child white roses or carnations
if its an older person usually lillys
although any flower will work those are usually the trend.
Reply:white ross
Reply:Most people say lilies, but personally, flowers that remind you of the person that has died seem a nicer idea to me, if their favourite flowers were chrysanthemums, then why not have a tribute made of those?
Reply:Sunflowers
Reply:white lillies
Reply:Lilys are traditionally associated with death and funerals. However, if the deceased person had a favourite flower that would be apropriate too. Failing that, if the deceased person had a cheery disposition, maybe you could reflect that in the colour and type of floral tribute that you send.
Reply:lily was traditional
lately the deceased's favorite too
Reply:Lilies are associated with death, but any flower is fine. Often red or white roses are used by the family.
Reply:Lilies however any white flower will do.
Reply:Look at your flower shop or on line. They have become expensive and come prearranged I would look for a price range and of course it largely depends what the relationship is with the deceased .
Reply:Chrysanthemums
Reply:lily
Reply:white liilies and roses
Reply:Lillies.
Reply:lilly
Reply:If you put thought into it, it is the "right" flower.
Remember the purpose of the dynamic group action called "funeral". You should do things that promote understanding, closure, healing, and support.
What Flower does this best?
Reply:breakfast burritos
Reply:Something tasteful, like with pale colours, and not those horrible pearly gates and teddy displays you see in funeral director's brochures.
Reply:Mums and roses. My dad used to be a funeral director, and we'd see these all the time.
Reply:lilly or white roses - if you call the florist and telling them you need a funeral spread or bouquet they will know hwat to make
Reply:relatives can be inundated with bouquets that die, so a plant that comes back preferably year after year, can be a nice memorial
IE: potted summer flowering bulbs or perennial; white lavender
Reply:what ever the deceased liked. For my grandma it was roses. For my grandpa it was daisies
Reply:white lillys or irises if they are in season
Reply:lilies and roses
Reply:Longine lillies (These are the beautiful trumpet shaped ones) simply tied with some structural greenery to protect, support and show them off.
It depends on your relationship with the deceased...
2. Price you can afford
3. Fragrance
4. Freshness of the flowers
Decide if you want to send a funeral spray or a flower arrangement or plant.
A funeral spray is attatched to a stand and usually taken to the grave site. It is the biggest and will stand out more at the funeral. The flowers are put into a block of wet foam. This type of arrangement does not last very long outside. The florist may be tempted to unload his oldest flowers. Also if there a lot of funeral sprays at the funeral, the funeral home may only bring a few to the grave site.
A nice flower arrangement will be at the funeral home and then usually taken to the home of the family. When you place your order specify that you want fresh flowers so that the arrangement will last a long time. A good flower shop will do this anyway but it doesn't hurt to let them know that you will want your money back if the arrangement doesn't last. You may want to use a credit card to place your order. Some flowers will last longer than others such as carnations, chrysanthemums, lillies and roses. Chrysantemums come in many forms which look like a full ball or like a daisy. Carnations have a light fragrance, chrysanthemums have none, lillies are very strong fragrance to the point of being overpowering and most florist roses don't have a fragrance. Florist roses have been bred to look good and the fragrance has been lost for most of them. Lillies and roses are the most expensive flowers. So a mixture of flowers is usually attractive and priced at the mid-range.
Plants are nice but not everyone can keep a plant alive. If they are able to keep it alive then they will remember your gift for a long time.
When my Dad died he asked that flowers not be sent and the money be donated to the upkeep of the small private cemetary that he was buried at. The immediate family had a funeral spray made so that there would be some flowers there. If a donation is made to a charity then you should send a card letting the family know of your gift.
.
What are the most appropriate flowers for a funeral?
Lillie's are the best they are white which brings peace to human nature.
Reply:daisies
Reply:It depends on who's funeral it is and the time of year. I always buy the persons favourite flowers. I think of the flowers being for them, not the people attending the funeral. It can also make it more personal to add some small items to the flowers that symbolise something in the deceased life. A small toy if it is a child (hope that is not the case), a picture or anything that links you and the deceased.
Reply:I always send the deceased's favortie flower in their memory. I have seen lilies and roses in arrangements. Some people have even sent houseplants.
Reply:Llies
Reply:depends on your relationship with the person.
if its a friend/co-worker/neighbor pink roses or carnations
if its a love one red roses
if its a child white roses or carnations
if its an older person usually lillys
although any flower will work those are usually the trend.
Reply:white ross
Reply:Most people say lilies, but personally, flowers that remind you of the person that has died seem a nicer idea to me, if their favourite flowers were chrysanthemums, then why not have a tribute made of those?
Reply:Sunflowers
Reply:white lillies
Reply:Lilys are traditionally associated with death and funerals. However, if the deceased person had a favourite flower that would be apropriate too. Failing that, if the deceased person had a cheery disposition, maybe you could reflect that in the colour and type of floral tribute that you send.
Reply:lily was traditional
lately the deceased's favorite too
Reply:Lilies are associated with death, but any flower is fine. Often red or white roses are used by the family.
Reply:Lilies however any white flower will do.
Reply:Look at your flower shop or on line. They have become expensive and come prearranged I would look for a price range and of course it largely depends what the relationship is with the deceased .
Reply:Chrysanthemums
Reply:lily
Reply:white liilies and roses
Reply:Lillies.
Reply:lilly
Reply:If you put thought into it, it is the "right" flower.
Remember the purpose of the dynamic group action called "funeral". You should do things that promote understanding, closure, healing, and support.
What Flower does this best?
Reply:breakfast burritos
Reply:Something tasteful, like with pale colours, and not those horrible pearly gates and teddy displays you see in funeral director's brochures.
Reply:Mums and roses. My dad used to be a funeral director, and we'd see these all the time.
Reply:lilly or white roses - if you call the florist and telling them you need a funeral spread or bouquet they will know hwat to make
Reply:relatives can be inundated with bouquets that die, so a plant that comes back preferably year after year, can be a nice memorial
IE: potted summer flowering bulbs or perennial; white lavender
Reply:what ever the deceased liked. For my grandma it was roses. For my grandpa it was daisies
Reply:white lillys or irises if they are in season
Reply:lilies and roses
Reply:Longine lillies (These are the beautiful trumpet shaped ones) simply tied with some structural greenery to protect, support and show them off.
It depends on your relationship with the deceased...
What should i write on a card to put on my Nanna's funeral flowers? Any links to sites that have nice verses?
I'm finding it hard to put into words what i feel for my Nanna and need a bit of a helping hand.
Thanks
xx
What should i write on a card to put on my Nanna's funeral flowers? Any links to sites that have nice verses?
So sorry about your loss.
I used this verse for my uncle when he passed away.
Wonderful memories woven in Gold,
There is a picture we tenderly hold,
Deep in our heart a memory is kept,
To love, to cherish, and never forget.
Gone is the face we loved so dear,
Silent the voice we long to hear,
In all the world we will not find,
A heart so wonderful and kind.
You left us quietly,
Your thoughts unknown,
But left us memories,
We are proud to own.
Reply:A short personal message is always good. 'I will always love and remember you nana. Thank-you for all your kindness and the happy times we shared together'. All my Love- xxx
Something like that perhaps.
Reply:its hard to lost someone who is very close to us, in the card maybe you should write how you feel about her and thanks to her how grateful you are to be her grandchild.
Reply:You stood over me when I was young and watched as I grew, gave me the love that only a grand mother can and as I grew older I started to watch you and watched as you slipped into the quiet good night....and now its good bye. Take with you my love as I have taken yours with me. Til we meet again - anon
Reply:May the road rise to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face.
And rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the hollow of His hand.
this is a few words from the irish blessing
Reply:I wrote this for mine, don't know if there's anything within it you can use. - God bless ur Gran.
You said that you had cancer, You told me you would die.
I couldn't quite believe it but you looked me in the eye.
I thought you'd stay forever, I thought my kids would meet you
You told me you were leaving, there was nothing you could do
I watched you quickly crumble, you turned into a wreck
My strong mentor gave up, with this noose around her neck
I can't lose my granny, God knows she drives me round the bend,
They said you had a full year yet and you'd see it to its end
We both knew you wouldn't though, we knew you'd given in,
Who could blame you for it, no reason to bear and grin.
Walking home a few weeks later and I began to cry
I knew I had to tell you I loved you and say my last goodbye
I knew that you were leaving that night, something told me so
I fell to my knees and pleaded with god, please don't let her go
I knew that it was a selfish want, and I knew you were in pain
But each extra day I spent with you was such a massive gain,
Granda came to meet you that night, I felt his touch in there
He had came to guide his one true love to heaven through the air,
He lifted you gently in his arms and carried you away
I look up at the bright white light and said "see you another day"
Reply:the best this to write on the card is from your heart....
Reply:Words can not express how sorry I am. I lost my pop in March and its always hard to know what to say. Here a few that may help...
Grandmother
We had a wonderful grandmother,
One who never really grew old;
Her smile was made of sunshine,
And her heart was solid gold;
Her eyes were as bright as shining stars,
And in her cheeks fair roses you see.
We had a wonderful grandmother,
And that' s the way it will always be.
But take heed, because
She's still keeping an eye on all of us,
So let's make sure
She will like what she sees.
Legacy of Love
A wife, a mother, a grandma too,
This is the legacy we have from you.
You taught us love and how to fight,
You gave us strength, you gave us might.
A stronger person would be hard to find,
And in your heart, you were always kind.
You fought for us all in one way or another,
Not just as a wife not just as a mother.
For all of us you gave your best,
Now the time has come for you to rest.
So go in peace, you've earned your sleep,
Your love in our hearts, we'll eternally keep
I hope this helps. keep your head up sweetie. I can't say that its going to get easier. Because you will always miss her. But it will get better. Take care.
Reply:Sorry for your loss, just think about your Nanna and I'm sure something will come to you, like how she made you smile!
Reply:im sorry to hear about your Nanna,But i think something from you would be nicer. doesnt matter what it is,because your nanna will be the only one reading it.just tell her how much you loved her and that you will miss her very much,and she will always be in your thoughts.the good times you had together,Well god bless you and your family,It all comes from the heart,
Reply:Keep it simple and sincere. Try I loved you and will miss you for ever my lovely Nanna. Or try One day Nanna we will be together again. What ever you say make it from you and how YOU feel as a warm and real human being. Forget web sites. Your Nanna was not a PC and neither are you.
Reply:http://www.heavenlywhitedoves.net/funera...
sorry about your grandmother. i will pry for your family. this site has a ot of different verses and poems. i like it, i hope you find what you are looking fir.
Reply:google will help ya out
sorry for ya loss
i know that dosent mean alot from a stranger
but i know how hard it was when i lost mine :(
take refuge in the fact that she was a lovelly person who cared. nanna's allways make things good.
im sure if ya a religiouse person that u know she is in a far better place now :-)
as i say sorry for ya loss :-(
here is some i googled for ya .. hop they are of some use
http://www.fropper.com/forum/message-lis...
http://americanhospice.org/griefzone/art...
hugs ya ..... take care
ps have a star to remind you that Nanna will allways be watching over you from the heavens.
allthough no longer with you she lives on in your heart
running shoes
Thanks
xx
What should i write on a card to put on my Nanna's funeral flowers? Any links to sites that have nice verses?
So sorry about your loss.
I used this verse for my uncle when he passed away.
Wonderful memories woven in Gold,
There is a picture we tenderly hold,
Deep in our heart a memory is kept,
To love, to cherish, and never forget.
Gone is the face we loved so dear,
Silent the voice we long to hear,
In all the world we will not find,
A heart so wonderful and kind.
You left us quietly,
Your thoughts unknown,
But left us memories,
We are proud to own.
Reply:A short personal message is always good. 'I will always love and remember you nana. Thank-you for all your kindness and the happy times we shared together'. All my Love- xxx
Something like that perhaps.
Reply:its hard to lost someone who is very close to us, in the card maybe you should write how you feel about her and thanks to her how grateful you are to be her grandchild.
Reply:You stood over me when I was young and watched as I grew, gave me the love that only a grand mother can and as I grew older I started to watch you and watched as you slipped into the quiet good night....and now its good bye. Take with you my love as I have taken yours with me. Til we meet again - anon
Reply:May the road rise to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face.
And rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the hollow of His hand.
this is a few words from the irish blessing
Reply:I wrote this for mine, don't know if there's anything within it you can use. - God bless ur Gran.
You said that you had cancer, You told me you would die.
I couldn't quite believe it but you looked me in the eye.
I thought you'd stay forever, I thought my kids would meet you
You told me you were leaving, there was nothing you could do
I watched you quickly crumble, you turned into a wreck
My strong mentor gave up, with this noose around her neck
I can't lose my granny, God knows she drives me round the bend,
They said you had a full year yet and you'd see it to its end
We both knew you wouldn't though, we knew you'd given in,
Who could blame you for it, no reason to bear and grin.
Walking home a few weeks later and I began to cry
I knew I had to tell you I loved you and say my last goodbye
I knew that you were leaving that night, something told me so
I fell to my knees and pleaded with god, please don't let her go
I knew that it was a selfish want, and I knew you were in pain
But each extra day I spent with you was such a massive gain,
Granda came to meet you that night, I felt his touch in there
He had came to guide his one true love to heaven through the air,
He lifted you gently in his arms and carried you away
I look up at the bright white light and said "see you another day"
Reply:the best this to write on the card is from your heart....
Reply:Words can not express how sorry I am. I lost my pop in March and its always hard to know what to say. Here a few that may help...
Grandmother
We had a wonderful grandmother,
One who never really grew old;
Her smile was made of sunshine,
And her heart was solid gold;
Her eyes were as bright as shining stars,
And in her cheeks fair roses you see.
We had a wonderful grandmother,
And that' s the way it will always be.
But take heed, because
She's still keeping an eye on all of us,
So let's make sure
She will like what she sees.
Legacy of Love
A wife, a mother, a grandma too,
This is the legacy we have from you.
You taught us love and how to fight,
You gave us strength, you gave us might.
A stronger person would be hard to find,
And in your heart, you were always kind.
You fought for us all in one way or another,
Not just as a wife not just as a mother.
For all of us you gave your best,
Now the time has come for you to rest.
So go in peace, you've earned your sleep,
Your love in our hearts, we'll eternally keep
I hope this helps. keep your head up sweetie. I can't say that its going to get easier. Because you will always miss her. But it will get better. Take care.
Reply:Sorry for your loss, just think about your Nanna and I'm sure something will come to you, like how she made you smile!
Reply:im sorry to hear about your Nanna,But i think something from you would be nicer. doesnt matter what it is,because your nanna will be the only one reading it.just tell her how much you loved her and that you will miss her very much,and she will always be in your thoughts.the good times you had together,Well god bless you and your family,It all comes from the heart,
Reply:Keep it simple and sincere. Try I loved you and will miss you for ever my lovely Nanna. Or try One day Nanna we will be together again. What ever you say make it from you and how YOU feel as a warm and real human being. Forget web sites. Your Nanna was not a PC and neither are you.
Reply:http://www.heavenlywhitedoves.net/funera...
sorry about your grandmother. i will pry for your family. this site has a ot of different verses and poems. i like it, i hope you find what you are looking fir.
Reply:google will help ya out
sorry for ya loss
i know that dosent mean alot from a stranger
but i know how hard it was when i lost mine :(
take refuge in the fact that she was a lovelly person who cared. nanna's allways make things good.
im sure if ya a religiouse person that u know she is in a far better place now :-)
as i say sorry for ya loss :-(
here is some i googled for ya .. hop they are of some use
http://www.fropper.com/forum/message-lis...
http://americanhospice.org/griefzone/art...
hugs ya ..... take care
ps have a star to remind you that Nanna will allways be watching over you from the heavens.
allthough no longer with you she lives on in your heart
running shoes
What are the best flowers for a funeral, what should I write on the card?
Some really nice suggestions please, it's for a dear old lady.
Maybe a little poem or something.
What are the best flowers for a funeral, what should I write on the card?
get her favorite colors of flowers, and have them put into a saddle flat, they call them, and write to her as if she was over your shoulder and say I will miss you, thank you for all the wonderful times, etc...
I just buried my Mum not 2 months ago....I had wondered the same too.
I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Reply:White lillies are traditional but maybe try come flowers with colour and a nice scent (roses%26amp; freesias).
As for the card, write down what she meant to you, a message from the heart is always better than someone elses words.
Sorry for your loss.
Reply:I'd skip the poem, and go with My sincere condolences, I will miss her terribly, your name. And a nice bouquet of fresh cut flowers. Sorry for your lose.
Reply:Not sure on the flowers. But the card could have
"Thinking of you at this difficult time." and perhaps a sentiment that should they need you then you are there for them...
Reply:red and white roses and something simple like missed dearly anything else seems a bit fake i think
Reply:if sunflowers where still in season i would send them and write on the card all the ways she brought sunshine in to your life
Reply:carnations ( that's what I've always seen)
%26amp; just write a poem about how she touched your life.
my sympathy
Reply:Sorry to hear of your loss.
As for the flowers, think they say lillies are meant to be for funerals.
Writing on the card, what about something along the lines of, "Gone but not forgotten, always in my thoughts"
Short and straight to the point I'm afraid - that's me!
xx
Reply:white lillies
forever in my/ our heart(s)
i know youre smiling down on us/me
Reply:best flowers are lillies, roses, or carnations (or a combination of all 3)
in the card it depends how well you know the person. try not to get a card with a poem in it because they are very depressing because they carry on a bit about death.
my grandfather died a year ago. this is the sort of thing i dealt with. hope it helps
Reply:lillies or a white roses are always nice.....or you could also use her favorite flower as a special way of saying good bye......as for a card, put sorry for your loss and give words of encouragement so that they(the family) can through the tough days
Reply:For the flowers, a nice mixed bunch of chrysanthemums or maybe lillies.
For the poem/verse;
For the precious time we had together,
I'll remember you always,
and forget you never.
Reply:Small tea roses in whatever color the lady liked. White, pink or pale lemon are nice colors to chose with maybe some smaller flowers like Lily of the valley or gypsophilia depending on what's available. I think small arrangements are nicer and more fitting than huge floral tributes. The card should state your feelings and is really a personal expression.. so just write what you feel about her passing or what she meant to you!
Reply:To Live in the Hearts of those we Love, is not to die. a single rose.
Reply:white flowers are always appropriate, but what was her favourite you could use that, and rather than a poem on your card why not write something straight from the heart it's more personal.
I wrote my own poem when my father died, it didn't ryhme but said what I wanted it to say.
" time goes on even though your no here,
seasons change,
flowers grow and birds sing.
..............I miss you."
Reply:If your unsure, why not ask the florist for help. They have plenty of experience in these matters.
You can even have wreaths of flowers made if you prefer.
Reply:whatever flowers they liked, or ask a florist, they'll probably have suggestions
as to what to write, just put "thinking of you" or "you're in my thoughts"
Reply:The best flowers for a funeral is a potted plant.
That way, some one grieving can take it home and nuture it and have it as a rememberance of the "event"...
This way, its a 'tangible' item and they have something to hold and keep the memory alive...
Because all other flowers are tossed on the grave, and left to rot...
I wish you well..
Jesse
Reply:White lillies.
Rest in Peace Dearest Lady
Reply:Most florists have special arrangements for funerals. Just right your name on the card, no one really takes the time to read the cards at a funeral anyway. The flowers to right from the parlor to the grave site.
Reply:Lillies are the most usual
Reply:i have no idea about the flowers but write in the card how you feel and how special the lady was to you
Reply:Florist may give you better hints.
What is good and bad before a dead person?
Reply:A token charitable donation in her name would be a good idea. Something life assuring, like a children's charity.
As the tide of life washes over us, cleansing refreshing and cool, I add your spirit to my wishes of making this world pure. A donation I'll give the way you gave to me, with love and with kindness, in your memory.
Hope it reads well I just made it up quickly.
Maybe a little poem or something.
What are the best flowers for a funeral, what should I write on the card?
get her favorite colors of flowers, and have them put into a saddle flat, they call them, and write to her as if she was over your shoulder and say I will miss you, thank you for all the wonderful times, etc...
I just buried my Mum not 2 months ago....I had wondered the same too.
I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Reply:White lillies are traditional but maybe try come flowers with colour and a nice scent (roses%26amp; freesias).
As for the card, write down what she meant to you, a message from the heart is always better than someone elses words.
Sorry for your loss.
Reply:I'd skip the poem, and go with My sincere condolences, I will miss her terribly, your name. And a nice bouquet of fresh cut flowers. Sorry for your lose.
Reply:Not sure on the flowers. But the card could have
"Thinking of you at this difficult time." and perhaps a sentiment that should they need you then you are there for them...
Reply:red and white roses and something simple like missed dearly anything else seems a bit fake i think
Reply:if sunflowers where still in season i would send them and write on the card all the ways she brought sunshine in to your life
Reply:carnations ( that's what I've always seen)
%26amp; just write a poem about how she touched your life.
my sympathy
Reply:Sorry to hear of your loss.
As for the flowers, think they say lillies are meant to be for funerals.
Writing on the card, what about something along the lines of, "Gone but not forgotten, always in my thoughts"
Short and straight to the point I'm afraid - that's me!
xx
Reply:white lillies
forever in my/ our heart(s)
i know youre smiling down on us/me
Reply:best flowers are lillies, roses, or carnations (or a combination of all 3)
in the card it depends how well you know the person. try not to get a card with a poem in it because they are very depressing because they carry on a bit about death.
my grandfather died a year ago. this is the sort of thing i dealt with. hope it helps
Reply:lillies or a white roses are always nice.....or you could also use her favorite flower as a special way of saying good bye......as for a card, put sorry for your loss and give words of encouragement so that they(the family) can through the tough days
Reply:For the flowers, a nice mixed bunch of chrysanthemums or maybe lillies.
For the poem/verse;
For the precious time we had together,
I'll remember you always,
and forget you never.
Reply:Small tea roses in whatever color the lady liked. White, pink or pale lemon are nice colors to chose with maybe some smaller flowers like Lily of the valley or gypsophilia depending on what's available. I think small arrangements are nicer and more fitting than huge floral tributes. The card should state your feelings and is really a personal expression.. so just write what you feel about her passing or what she meant to you!
Reply:To Live in the Hearts of those we Love, is not to die. a single rose.
Reply:white flowers are always appropriate, but what was her favourite you could use that, and rather than a poem on your card why not write something straight from the heart it's more personal.
I wrote my own poem when my father died, it didn't ryhme but said what I wanted it to say.
" time goes on even though your no here,
seasons change,
flowers grow and birds sing.
..............I miss you."
Reply:If your unsure, why not ask the florist for help. They have plenty of experience in these matters.
You can even have wreaths of flowers made if you prefer.
Reply:whatever flowers they liked, or ask a florist, they'll probably have suggestions
as to what to write, just put "thinking of you" or "you're in my thoughts"
Reply:The best flowers for a funeral is a potted plant.
That way, some one grieving can take it home and nuture it and have it as a rememberance of the "event"...
This way, its a 'tangible' item and they have something to hold and keep the memory alive...
Because all other flowers are tossed on the grave, and left to rot...
I wish you well..
Jesse
Reply:White lillies.
Rest in Peace Dearest Lady
Reply:Most florists have special arrangements for funerals. Just right your name on the card, no one really takes the time to read the cards at a funeral anyway. The flowers to right from the parlor to the grave site.
Reply:Lillies are the most usual
Reply:i have no idea about the flowers but write in the card how you feel and how special the lady was to you
Reply:Florist may give you better hints.
What is good and bad before a dead person?
Reply:A token charitable donation in her name would be a good idea. Something life assuring, like a children's charity.
As the tide of life washes over us, cleansing refreshing and cool, I add your spirit to my wishes of making this world pure. A donation I'll give the way you gave to me, with love and with kindness, in your memory.
Hope it reads well I just made it up quickly.
Is it better to give money or flowers at a funeral?
My friend died yesterday and his family does not have burial Insurance, so what should I do?
Is it better to give money or flowers at a funeral?
Etiquette dictates that you should send flowers or follow whatever requests the family makes. Some families request donations be made to a favorite charity in lieu of flowers.
Otherwise, simply let them know that if they need anything, you are available to help. At times like this, money is less of an issue than trying to get life back together. An offer to babysit so that the arrangments can be made would probably mean much more than money. Or you could offer to help with household chores. You would be surprised how this is a major issue during times like this, because the combination of having all sorts of friends and relatives stopping by to offer condolences, coupled with not having time to clean, can make many people very anxious.
Reply:The family may find a financial contribution more helpful , especially if they do not have burial insurance; however, how you choose to extend your sympathies is a very personal thing for you as well. You may want to wait for the obituary to see if they set up a fund for burial expenses. If they do, I would make a contribution to the fund rather than make a cash donation. That way, you know that your contribution is going for its intended purpose.
Reply:I would have to say money, Flowers are nice but they don't really matter if you are grieving the loss of a loved one. Grieving the loss and floating the bills is tough...
Reply:If you really think the family could be in financial difficulty with this, and you aren't looking for recognition, you can send an "anonymous contribution" to the family - of whatever amount you find appropriate. A cashier's check or money order can ensure anonymity. That can often be an incredible gift without putting the family in the uncomfortable position of accepting money or even acknowledging that they need money.
Reply:If you know there is specific need for money give that. However many are offended by cash gifts. If the peson has a favorite charity or cause a donation there is great. I am not sure of your age but if your friend had children who are not yet grown giving money in a college or trust fund for them is an option.
Reply:Pay for the insurance.. It would mean a great much to your friends family.. I'm sorry for the loss of your friend
Reply:The death of a loved one is so hard and made more difficult if the family has to also deal with funeral expenses. A hand written letter to the family and a monetary contribution will be treasured by loved ones much longer than the flowers.
Reply:wow. im so sorry, i know what it feels like, the same thing happened to me. however, i think money might be rude, but if you want to, ask his family if they need money, or if you could make a donation in his name, but you should probably just give flowers
Reply:I think the closer you are to the deceased, it is more appropriate to send flowers. If you are not so close, I would say a card with money is more appropriate.
Is it better to give money or flowers at a funeral?
Etiquette dictates that you should send flowers or follow whatever requests the family makes. Some families request donations be made to a favorite charity in lieu of flowers.
Otherwise, simply let them know that if they need anything, you are available to help. At times like this, money is less of an issue than trying to get life back together. An offer to babysit so that the arrangments can be made would probably mean much more than money. Or you could offer to help with household chores. You would be surprised how this is a major issue during times like this, because the combination of having all sorts of friends and relatives stopping by to offer condolences, coupled with not having time to clean, can make many people very anxious.
Reply:The family may find a financial contribution more helpful , especially if they do not have burial insurance; however, how you choose to extend your sympathies is a very personal thing for you as well. You may want to wait for the obituary to see if they set up a fund for burial expenses. If they do, I would make a contribution to the fund rather than make a cash donation. That way, you know that your contribution is going for its intended purpose.
Reply:I would have to say money, Flowers are nice but they don't really matter if you are grieving the loss of a loved one. Grieving the loss and floating the bills is tough...
Reply:If you really think the family could be in financial difficulty with this, and you aren't looking for recognition, you can send an "anonymous contribution" to the family - of whatever amount you find appropriate. A cashier's check or money order can ensure anonymity. That can often be an incredible gift without putting the family in the uncomfortable position of accepting money or even acknowledging that they need money.
Reply:If you know there is specific need for money give that. However many are offended by cash gifts. If the peson has a favorite charity or cause a donation there is great. I am not sure of your age but if your friend had children who are not yet grown giving money in a college or trust fund for them is an option.
Reply:Pay for the insurance.. It would mean a great much to your friends family.. I'm sorry for the loss of your friend
Reply:The death of a loved one is so hard and made more difficult if the family has to also deal with funeral expenses. A hand written letter to the family and a monetary contribution will be treasured by loved ones much longer than the flowers.
Reply:wow. im so sorry, i know what it feels like, the same thing happened to me. however, i think money might be rude, but if you want to, ask his family if they need money, or if you could make a donation in his name, but you should probably just give flowers
Reply:I think the closer you are to the deceased, it is more appropriate to send flowers. If you are not so close, I would say a card with money is more appropriate.
Funeral Flowers...how, what kind, when??? please help?
I'm going to be going to a funeral soon, and I want to take flowers. What kind of flowers should I take? How many in number? What color?
There's going to be a lot of people, so I'm just going to be one of the people who'll just go to pay tribute to the family of the deceased. The point is, what do I do with the flower, for I haven't been to a funeral before. Help me out please.
Thank you,
George
P.S. Christian Funeral in Los Angeles.
Funeral Flowers...how, what kind, when??? please help?
Flowers are a nice way to pay tribute, but often the family can get over-run with flowers after the funeral. Now-a-days, many families request that in lieu of flowers a donation can be made to a particular charity (if the person was sick), or to your favourite charity.
Fruit baskets are also a great alternatives to flowers because the items can be used and after a death in the family a lot of people don't feel like cooking.
Just some alternative suggestions.
Reply:I agree with both the previous answers with one suggestion: when ordering flowers from a florist, be sure you include your address on the back of the card you sign. This saves the family much frustration trying to find you to send a note of thanks. Also, ck out the obituary in the local paper (most are online) as the family may prefer memorials be made rather than flowers.
Reply:Call the florist and describe your relationship to the deceased. They will make an appropriate arrangement and deliver. It's best that way, not to mention easier. Bringing flowers with you is kind of rare.
Reply:I say that you send a green plant to the house of the person you know that is mourning the loss. It is a nice way for them to remember the one they lost when they see the plant. I would suggest an "english garden" that has a blooming plant (in season) and a grouping of green plants. It's also overwhelming to have to deal with all of the flowers, most times they end up left at the church or donated to nursing homes.
Reply:Go to the florist and order an arrangement. Sign the card (simply. No need for lots of words. Just your name, will do.) Have the florist deliver the flowers to the funeral home for you.
Reply:I usually call the family and ask for the favorite kind of flower or get special and pick up some and make your own basket of flowers.
Reply:General funeral etiquette dictates that you send a flower arrangement to the funeral home, not take them to the funeral yourself. A local florist will be able to suggest appropriate flowers in your price range-- I've usually seen white. Add a card with your condolences.
Reply:ring or go to florists - tell them how much you want to spend and the message you want on the card. leave it to them to sort out. they will deliver flowers to rest home and they will be included with the others. dont worry any further than that. the family will simply say "beautiful flowers" regardless, unless they have specified no flowers in which case you give a donation to charity.
Reply:A lot of good answers. Yeah if you WANT to give flowers than call a florists they know what to do. My grandmother died in the beginning of the year and we asked for people to donate to two of her favorite charities in her name. But its up to you.
There's going to be a lot of people, so I'm just going to be one of the people who'll just go to pay tribute to the family of the deceased. The point is, what do I do with the flower, for I haven't been to a funeral before. Help me out please.
Thank you,
George
P.S. Christian Funeral in Los Angeles.
Funeral Flowers...how, what kind, when??? please help?
Flowers are a nice way to pay tribute, but often the family can get over-run with flowers after the funeral. Now-a-days, many families request that in lieu of flowers a donation can be made to a particular charity (if the person was sick), or to your favourite charity.
Fruit baskets are also a great alternatives to flowers because the items can be used and after a death in the family a lot of people don't feel like cooking.
Just some alternative suggestions.
Reply:I agree with both the previous answers with one suggestion: when ordering flowers from a florist, be sure you include your address on the back of the card you sign. This saves the family much frustration trying to find you to send a note of thanks. Also, ck out the obituary in the local paper (most are online) as the family may prefer memorials be made rather than flowers.
Reply:Call the florist and describe your relationship to the deceased. They will make an appropriate arrangement and deliver. It's best that way, not to mention easier. Bringing flowers with you is kind of rare.
Reply:I say that you send a green plant to the house of the person you know that is mourning the loss. It is a nice way for them to remember the one they lost when they see the plant. I would suggest an "english garden" that has a blooming plant (in season) and a grouping of green plants. It's also overwhelming to have to deal with all of the flowers, most times they end up left at the church or donated to nursing homes.
Reply:Go to the florist and order an arrangement. Sign the card (simply. No need for lots of words. Just your name, will do.) Have the florist deliver the flowers to the funeral home for you.
Reply:I usually call the family and ask for the favorite kind of flower or get special and pick up some and make your own basket of flowers.
Reply:General funeral etiquette dictates that you send a flower arrangement to the funeral home, not take them to the funeral yourself. A local florist will be able to suggest appropriate flowers in your price range-- I've usually seen white. Add a card with your condolences.
Reply:ring or go to florists - tell them how much you want to spend and the message you want on the card. leave it to them to sort out. they will deliver flowers to rest home and they will be included with the others. dont worry any further than that. the family will simply say "beautiful flowers" regardless, unless they have specified no flowers in which case you give a donation to charity.
Reply:A lot of good answers. Yeah if you WANT to give flowers than call a florists they know what to do. My grandmother died in the beginning of the year and we asked for people to donate to two of her favorite charities in her name. But its up to you.
Have you ever saved the flowers from someones funeral?
i have had these flowers in a vase for 3 years. i don't know why i keep them. i miss my brother alot. i take care of his daughter now. i was thinking about saving them in case she ever wanted them. they are all dry now of course. but why am i saving such a bad thing. and why would i save something so sad? i don't know if the baby would ever want these flowers. she never got to meet her dad. this is very hard and why cant i throw them away.? should I throw them away. i don't feel very strong right now.
Have you ever saved the flowers from someones funeral?
Sweetheart, you don't HAVE to throw them away. There's nothing wrong with keeping them as a memento to your brother. I think, when your niece gets older, she will really appreciate the fact that you saved the flowers..partly, because of her.
I admire you honey, don't dare put yourself down...k? By the way, I have a rose from my grandpa's funeral in 1991...and I'll NEVER get rid of it.
Gentle hugs, Marilyn
Reply:Hi,,, yes by all means save them,,,, and let me give you an idea ....
I took my Moms flowers,and after they dried,, put them in a large jar,,, with different things that was hers... her watch,, small pictures,, nick nacks that was hers ,, in kind of layers.... it looks great.... no kidding... and its her stuff.... you know ,,,, they are not gone unless you quit thinking about them !!
good luck
Reply:Of course my grandmother died in febuary its a way of remembering the ones you love...
Reply:Do not throw them away unless you do not like them. Make a spray out of them.
Reply:no i dont think you should...this is something that you can use to help remember him by...i still have the flowers from my dad's funeral from 14 years ago...and everytime i look at them i think about all the good times i had with him
Reply:That's interesting. Actually, I suggest that you throw them away bitterly and coldly. You have to realize that it is not disrespectful to your brother, but rather, represents you throwing off that weight of mourning his loss.
When my mother died, I had a similar problem like you have. I kept a lot of my mother's junk and one day, like you, I asked myself, why am I keeping this????
I took a whole bunch of her dishes and glasses to a junk yard and just lost my temper and started breaking them. It actually felt so good to let out those emotions.
The next day, I had an amazing dream of my mother and we were talking in a cafe and I was crying in the dream and asked her, "why did you have to go???" I can't remember her reply, but when I woke up, I felt so relaxed and at peace again. I think that was when my mourning officially ended.
Now I am happy that my mother's spirit exists in the memories I have of her.
I know you don't feel strong now. Anyone who has lost a loved one goes thru that pain. I can assure you that letting go is the toughest thing to do but always makes you stronger in the end when you do let go.
Don't worry about your brother, he loved you as best as he could and will always feel that way for you where ever his spirit resides. Take peace in that and let the good memories you have of him live inside your heart. Let those good memories make your heart stronger and you a better person.
Reply:It's hard losing a sibling. Harder than losing almost anyone else. Part of yourself seems missing. Been there, done that. Save the flowers. I save lots of things that belonged to my brother. Real stupid things. Flowers are a symbol of love and caring. Some day the baby will be all grown up.....about 11 these days....and will know some one loved her dad a whole lot. But it doesn't matter. You matter. And it isn't true that the only ones who survive are the strong. You'll be alright. As my grandmother use to tell me, "Today, just get through. Tomorrow will be better." It wasn't always true but I only had to get through one day at a time. Eventually it does get better, no matter what life throws at you. As Momma bat said to Baby bat, "Hang in there."
Reply:You should be well moved on right now, however people handle grief differently. Both of my grandmas died nearly 3 and 6 years ago also, I kept flowers from their funerals. I have a few of them on my window sill, and a few on the dashboard of my car. I've moved on from both of my grandmother's deaths, but I keep the flowers so that they will always know where I sleep, and where I am in the most danger (driving). My advice is to buy a nice little keepsake box, maybe a wooden box and place the dead and dried flower petals into it. Keep telling yourself to move on, and make yourself come to terms with the purpose of these flower petals that are in the keepsake box. They can serve the same purpose as my flowers. Your brother will always know where you and his daughter are (because now he is her guardian angel), and when she grows up, give them to her so that she will have something of sentimental value that is connected to him. And by keeping them in the box, it will keep them protected from being crushed or thrown away. I gaurantee you will feel much better about your situation.
Reply:How about downsizing the vase full of flowers. Take a small step and pick a few of the best preserved flowers. Press them in a special book and tuck the book away in a book shelf. You can later take the flowers out of the book and give them to your niece. You will still be able to hold onto some of the flowers without having to look at them daily. You may also want to call a grief counselor to share your feelings about your brother's death. Good luck.
Reply:ya i have the flowers from my best friends funeral i took one and put it in the freezer to keep it fresh. i could never get rid of it .
Reply:sorry about your brother:(
Reply:When my grandfather died, we had an arrangement on his coffin with a yellow rosebud for each of his grandkids. After the funeral, each grandchild was given a yellow rosebud in a white box with a laminated copy of his obituary. That was 20 years ago and I still have mine.
Reply:Press the flowers or shrink wrap them. HIs daughter will appreciate how you tried to hold onto something for her, though I suspect they have been around more for you. 3 years is a long time to mourn. Try concentrating on his daughter and how much more she needs you in her life. She is the reminder of his life (not those flowers).
Reply:I saved flowers before, but I threw them away after a while. I think pictures, items that her father treasured (hat, shirt, etc) may be most important to keep and give to your niece. When she asks about him, tell her about how you two spent time together, bring up really funny and happy memories, cuz those one are less hurtful and they won't make you feel as sad.
Reply:I haven't saved any flowers, but I have taken a plant or two to remember them by.
PDA
Have you ever saved the flowers from someones funeral?
Sweetheart, you don't HAVE to throw them away. There's nothing wrong with keeping them as a memento to your brother. I think, when your niece gets older, she will really appreciate the fact that you saved the flowers..partly, because of her.
I admire you honey, don't dare put yourself down...k? By the way, I have a rose from my grandpa's funeral in 1991...and I'll NEVER get rid of it.
Gentle hugs, Marilyn
Reply:Hi,,, yes by all means save them,,,, and let me give you an idea ....
I took my Moms flowers,and after they dried,, put them in a large jar,,, with different things that was hers... her watch,, small pictures,, nick nacks that was hers ,, in kind of layers.... it looks great.... no kidding... and its her stuff.... you know ,,,, they are not gone unless you quit thinking about them !!
good luck
Reply:Of course my grandmother died in febuary its a way of remembering the ones you love...
Reply:Do not throw them away unless you do not like them. Make a spray out of them.
Reply:no i dont think you should...this is something that you can use to help remember him by...i still have the flowers from my dad's funeral from 14 years ago...and everytime i look at them i think about all the good times i had with him
Reply:That's interesting. Actually, I suggest that you throw them away bitterly and coldly. You have to realize that it is not disrespectful to your brother, but rather, represents you throwing off that weight of mourning his loss.
When my mother died, I had a similar problem like you have. I kept a lot of my mother's junk and one day, like you, I asked myself, why am I keeping this????
I took a whole bunch of her dishes and glasses to a junk yard and just lost my temper and started breaking them. It actually felt so good to let out those emotions.
The next day, I had an amazing dream of my mother and we were talking in a cafe and I was crying in the dream and asked her, "why did you have to go???" I can't remember her reply, but when I woke up, I felt so relaxed and at peace again. I think that was when my mourning officially ended.
Now I am happy that my mother's spirit exists in the memories I have of her.
I know you don't feel strong now. Anyone who has lost a loved one goes thru that pain. I can assure you that letting go is the toughest thing to do but always makes you stronger in the end when you do let go.
Don't worry about your brother, he loved you as best as he could and will always feel that way for you where ever his spirit resides. Take peace in that and let the good memories you have of him live inside your heart. Let those good memories make your heart stronger and you a better person.
Reply:It's hard losing a sibling. Harder than losing almost anyone else. Part of yourself seems missing. Been there, done that. Save the flowers. I save lots of things that belonged to my brother. Real stupid things. Flowers are a symbol of love and caring. Some day the baby will be all grown up.....about 11 these days....and will know some one loved her dad a whole lot. But it doesn't matter. You matter. And it isn't true that the only ones who survive are the strong. You'll be alright. As my grandmother use to tell me, "Today, just get through. Tomorrow will be better." It wasn't always true but I only had to get through one day at a time. Eventually it does get better, no matter what life throws at you. As Momma bat said to Baby bat, "Hang in there."
Reply:You should be well moved on right now, however people handle grief differently. Both of my grandmas died nearly 3 and 6 years ago also, I kept flowers from their funerals. I have a few of them on my window sill, and a few on the dashboard of my car. I've moved on from both of my grandmother's deaths, but I keep the flowers so that they will always know where I sleep, and where I am in the most danger (driving). My advice is to buy a nice little keepsake box, maybe a wooden box and place the dead and dried flower petals into it. Keep telling yourself to move on, and make yourself come to terms with the purpose of these flower petals that are in the keepsake box. They can serve the same purpose as my flowers. Your brother will always know where you and his daughter are (because now he is her guardian angel), and when she grows up, give them to her so that she will have something of sentimental value that is connected to him. And by keeping them in the box, it will keep them protected from being crushed or thrown away. I gaurantee you will feel much better about your situation.
Reply:How about downsizing the vase full of flowers. Take a small step and pick a few of the best preserved flowers. Press them in a special book and tuck the book away in a book shelf. You can later take the flowers out of the book and give them to your niece. You will still be able to hold onto some of the flowers without having to look at them daily. You may also want to call a grief counselor to share your feelings about your brother's death. Good luck.
Reply:ya i have the flowers from my best friends funeral i took one and put it in the freezer to keep it fresh. i could never get rid of it .
Reply:sorry about your brother:(
Reply:When my grandfather died, we had an arrangement on his coffin with a yellow rosebud for each of his grandkids. After the funeral, each grandchild was given a yellow rosebud in a white box with a laminated copy of his obituary. That was 20 years ago and I still have mine.
Reply:Press the flowers or shrink wrap them. HIs daughter will appreciate how you tried to hold onto something for her, though I suspect they have been around more for you. 3 years is a long time to mourn. Try concentrating on his daughter and how much more she needs you in her life. She is the reminder of his life (not those flowers).
Reply:I saved flowers before, but I threw them away after a while. I think pictures, items that her father treasured (hat, shirt, etc) may be most important to keep and give to your niece. When she asks about him, tell her about how you two spent time together, bring up really funny and happy memories, cuz those one are less hurtful and they won't make you feel as sad.
Reply:I haven't saved any flowers, but I have taken a plant or two to remember them by.
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Is it okay to carry flowers into a funeral home instead of delivering them?
My Aunt died and she will not have that many flowers at her funeral. I feel bad because I cannot afford the $50 - 150 that flowers cost from FTD florists. I was wondering if I could carry them in a bag and place them in the office when you first walk in. That way the funeral home would place them in the room where my aunt is. I am embarassed at the thought, however I cannot afford to send flowers. Am I better off going empty handed? Also to add, My aunt lives in a very low populated area and I dont think she will have many flowers. I would love to see a few sent flowers around her, especially for my cousin's sake.
Is it okay to carry flowers into a funeral home instead of delivering them?
yes carrying them would be fine. who cares how they get there as long as it get there. Sorry about ur Aunt
Reply:I think that carrying flowers in will be fine. It's the thought that counts, and you obviously care a lot.
Reply:Some people don't want flowers at the funeral anymore. The flowers are left at the graveside and they just wither away and die.
As a rule you don't bring flowers to a funeral. What you can do is bring a plant to your aunts home for her family. A plant will live forever...much longer than flowers at the funeral.
I'm sorry for your lose.
Reply:I have seen wealthy people that can afford to send flowers carry them in. Its not that big of a deal on how it gets there. Its the though of that its there.
You could take it early in the day to the funeral home when there are not a lot of people and give it to the office and then they could place as well.
A potted plant lasts alot longer than flowers. Or u can get a plant and flower mixture.
Reply:yes it is
Reply:don't ever be ashamed of any gift that comes from the heart and soul. don't go empty handed. this is something that you want to give to your aunt. never be ashamed of any gift -- big or small - just do it with love and it's the biggest gift on the face of the earth to the person you are doing it for. people worry too much on what others think. you are not trying to please them. this is something you are to doing to give thanks to your aunt. my hat goes off to you. i think it's beautiful. God Bless YOU!
Reply:that's a wonderful idea. i just see one thing wrong with what you want to do.i don't think you need to place them in the office.you can walk them up to her casket and place them at the closed end of it.i have done this in the past and see nothing wrong with it at all. and you don't need to tell anyone it was because you could not afford to have them sent, if you are asked {and i doubt that you would be} just say that you wanted to do one last thing for her.one more thing, don't bring them in a bag, carry them.PS. sorry about your aunt
Reply:yes absulutely usually people have flowers delivered when they dont attend
Is it okay to carry flowers into a funeral home instead of delivering them?
yes carrying them would be fine. who cares how they get there as long as it get there. Sorry about ur Aunt
Reply:I think that carrying flowers in will be fine. It's the thought that counts, and you obviously care a lot.
Reply:Some people don't want flowers at the funeral anymore. The flowers are left at the graveside and they just wither away and die.
As a rule you don't bring flowers to a funeral. What you can do is bring a plant to your aunts home for her family. A plant will live forever...much longer than flowers at the funeral.
I'm sorry for your lose.
Reply:I have seen wealthy people that can afford to send flowers carry them in. Its not that big of a deal on how it gets there. Its the though of that its there.
You could take it early in the day to the funeral home when there are not a lot of people and give it to the office and then they could place as well.
A potted plant lasts alot longer than flowers. Or u can get a plant and flower mixture.
Reply:yes it is
Reply:don't ever be ashamed of any gift that comes from the heart and soul. don't go empty handed. this is something that you want to give to your aunt. never be ashamed of any gift -- big or small - just do it with love and it's the biggest gift on the face of the earth to the person you are doing it for. people worry too much on what others think. you are not trying to please them. this is something you are to doing to give thanks to your aunt. my hat goes off to you. i think it's beautiful. God Bless YOU!
Reply:that's a wonderful idea. i just see one thing wrong with what you want to do.i don't think you need to place them in the office.you can walk them up to her casket and place them at the closed end of it.i have done this in the past and see nothing wrong with it at all. and you don't need to tell anyone it was because you could not afford to have them sent, if you are asked {and i doubt that you would be} just say that you wanted to do one last thing for her.one more thing, don't bring them in a bag, carry them.PS. sorry about your aunt
Reply:yes absulutely usually people have flowers delivered when they dont attend
Is it proper to carry flowers into the funeral home or should they be delivered?
Is there a proper etiquette? I'm talking about the visitation, not really the actual funeral.
Is it proper to carry flowers into the funeral home or should they be delivered?
Normally, you would have them delivered. However, at almost every funeral the funeral director is at the door greeting people. Just give them to the funeral director and tell them which family they are for, cause sometimes more then one viewing is going on at a time.
Reply:delivered is best but you can bring in small arrangements
Reply:they're usually delivered, but i don't think it would be a problem to bring them there yourself.
Reply:generally the flowers are delivered ...if you would like to take the flowers before the scheduled visitation and drop them off ..this would be fine...I have done this before... but ,I don't remember ever seeing anyone come to a visitation carry flowers in with them.......
Reply:If the family would rather not have flowers, it is proper to do neither. Check with the family. They sometimes don't like the flowers because it creates a mess and they would rather have the funds put to some other use. But if they don't mind, then have them delivered. Bring some kind of a dish instead. During a grieving period, people usually don't have the strength to cook much less the desire to eat, but they need to build up their energy. It is a more thoughtful thing to do.
Reply:I think that they should be brought prior to the viewing. It doesn't matter who delivers them. However, if you are bringing them while the viewing is going on that may seem abrupt. I like to send a plant to the grieving families home; because it costs the family to have those flowers disposed of. A plant holds more memory and it can be kept. I think it is sensless to spend that money when the majority of the flowers are tossed. More, and more people are choosing in lieu of flowers to donate to the deceased favorite charity or a cause that relates. Makes more sense to me.
Reply:Having them delivered is the best option, but if you must take them have whoever greets you at the door set them in place.
Reply:Actually, what's usually done is that you call the florist and order what you want, ususally cut flowers. they'll ask you what you want to spend, and you give them the name and address of the funeral home. Then they deliver them, and the funeral director will arrange them with the other floral tributes. I've never seen anyone bring flowers to the funeral home themselves. That would be rather awkward.
Reply:Hi
its fine for you to hand deliver them before the funeral or if you wish leave them in the car and pop them onto the grave after the service. then its nice and pesonal. its up to you - don't worry about whats right or wrong -
although the florist will deliver them fresh on the morning of the funeral and you will therefore not be worrying about being in the way. or bumping into very close family members who are greiving - although i presume you are not only due to the fact that you have asked the question. sorry if i am wrong.
hth
xx
Reply:Normally they would be delivered. If you would like to carry them in, try to get there before everyone else does.
Reply:Delivered.
Reply:You should take them before the funeral/visitation. You don't have to pay to have them delivered--if it's in town, you'd do much better to go to a florist and pick out an arrangement yourself (or choose one for them to make you) and take it by yourself.
If you just order...something, like FTD, you don't have much choice as to, say, what's in a dish garden or spray.
But don't walk into the gathering with them. I think that would be tacky. Go beforehand, give them to the funeral director (fill out the card from the florist), and then they'll be able to put them somewhere before everybody gets there. That way, it'll look more professional and organized.
Reply:As a funeral director it is best to give the flowers to a funeral director. Also wait till your the last person to go into the home. Thanks
Reply:The least you have to worry about is proper 'etiquette'. Who cares? Just take them and that's it! Jeez!!!
Reply:Well I think it depends if its your family...If its a friend then you should have them delivered..I took flowers to my son for the viewing and the funeral and put them on top of his casket..
Take Care~
Reply:It's ok, but hold the chocolate box, please.
Reply:It is perfectly acceptable (in my religion) to deliver flowers yourself. Enter quietly and place them with the other flowers....don't just carry them around.
Reply:i think either way is fine,,it is the thought that counts anyway,right?
Is it proper to carry flowers into the funeral home or should they be delivered?
Normally, you would have them delivered. However, at almost every funeral the funeral director is at the door greeting people. Just give them to the funeral director and tell them which family they are for, cause sometimes more then one viewing is going on at a time.
Reply:delivered is best but you can bring in small arrangements
Reply:they're usually delivered, but i don't think it would be a problem to bring them there yourself.
Reply:generally the flowers are delivered ...if you would like to take the flowers before the scheduled visitation and drop them off ..this would be fine...I have done this before... but ,I don't remember ever seeing anyone come to a visitation carry flowers in with them.......
Reply:If the family would rather not have flowers, it is proper to do neither. Check with the family. They sometimes don't like the flowers because it creates a mess and they would rather have the funds put to some other use. But if they don't mind, then have them delivered. Bring some kind of a dish instead. During a grieving period, people usually don't have the strength to cook much less the desire to eat, but they need to build up their energy. It is a more thoughtful thing to do.
Reply:I think that they should be brought prior to the viewing. It doesn't matter who delivers them. However, if you are bringing them while the viewing is going on that may seem abrupt. I like to send a plant to the grieving families home; because it costs the family to have those flowers disposed of. A plant holds more memory and it can be kept. I think it is sensless to spend that money when the majority of the flowers are tossed. More, and more people are choosing in lieu of flowers to donate to the deceased favorite charity or a cause that relates. Makes more sense to me.
Reply:Having them delivered is the best option, but if you must take them have whoever greets you at the door set them in place.
Reply:Actually, what's usually done is that you call the florist and order what you want, ususally cut flowers. they'll ask you what you want to spend, and you give them the name and address of the funeral home. Then they deliver them, and the funeral director will arrange them with the other floral tributes. I've never seen anyone bring flowers to the funeral home themselves. That would be rather awkward.
Reply:Hi
its fine for you to hand deliver them before the funeral or if you wish leave them in the car and pop them onto the grave after the service. then its nice and pesonal. its up to you - don't worry about whats right or wrong -
although the florist will deliver them fresh on the morning of the funeral and you will therefore not be worrying about being in the way. or bumping into very close family members who are greiving - although i presume you are not only due to the fact that you have asked the question. sorry if i am wrong.
hth
xx
Reply:Normally they would be delivered. If you would like to carry them in, try to get there before everyone else does.
Reply:Delivered.
Reply:You should take them before the funeral/visitation. You don't have to pay to have them delivered--if it's in town, you'd do much better to go to a florist and pick out an arrangement yourself (or choose one for them to make you) and take it by yourself.
If you just order...something, like FTD, you don't have much choice as to, say, what's in a dish garden or spray.
But don't walk into the gathering with them. I think that would be tacky. Go beforehand, give them to the funeral director (fill out the card from the florist), and then they'll be able to put them somewhere before everybody gets there. That way, it'll look more professional and organized.
Reply:As a funeral director it is best to give the flowers to a funeral director. Also wait till your the last person to go into the home. Thanks
Reply:The least you have to worry about is proper 'etiquette'. Who cares? Just take them and that's it! Jeez!!!
Reply:Well I think it depends if its your family...If its a friend then you should have them delivered..I took flowers to my son for the viewing and the funeral and put them on top of his casket..
Take Care~
Reply:It's ok, but hold the chocolate box, please.
Reply:It is perfectly acceptable (in my religion) to deliver flowers yourself. Enter quietly and place them with the other flowers....don't just carry them around.
Reply:i think either way is fine,,it is the thought that counts anyway,right?
How can you preserve fresh flowers from a funeral arrangement?
you can do several things. get silica sand to dry them..you lay the flowers in it and gently cover them with the sand. It draws out the moisture and keeps more of the color. #2 ties them together and hang them up-side down until they dry...but they tend to dry much darker. #3 get some "glycerin" from wall-mart or drugstore's. if I remember correctly, I boiled water 2 parts to 1 part glycerin and let it cool to warm, cut then stems of the flowers and put them in the mixture. you'll want to use a taller narrow vase so it doesn't take so much...let them soak for about a week...by then they should have the glycerin soaked up and preserved soft!
How can you preserve fresh flowers from a funeral arrangement?
theres a special kind of dust i think its called ever dry or something like that
im pretty sure you can get it at Michaels or stiens
wut i suggest is just take multiple flowers and do each theory that was suggested
Reply:well, whatever you do, they won't last forever, but take out a few and "press" them in a book or photo album to save.
Reply:put a small amount of sugar in the water
How can you preserve fresh flowers from a funeral arrangement?
theres a special kind of dust i think its called ever dry or something like that
im pretty sure you can get it at Michaels or stiens
wut i suggest is just take multiple flowers and do each theory that was suggested
Reply:well, whatever you do, they won't last forever, but take out a few and "press" them in a book or photo album to save.
Reply:put a small amount of sugar in the water
What to say in card attached with flowers for funeral of father of friend?
I want to send flowers to a funeral home for the funeral of my friend's father (I will not be in attendance). None of my friend's family knows me, so I didn't know if I should put in parentheses after my name that I'm a friend of the son of the deceased.
What to say in card attached with flowers for funeral of father of friend?
Just something along the lines of "So sorry for your loss , John " (or whatever your name is) Your friend will know who you are that is all that matters. You will of course speak at greater length with your friend privately , but the card annotation need not be long.
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What to say in card attached with flowers for funeral of father of friend?
Just something along the lines of "So sorry for your loss , John " (or whatever your name is) Your friend will know who you are that is all that matters. You will of course speak at greater length with your friend privately , but the card annotation need not be long.
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Why will people send flowers to a funeral home instead of contributing to the most expensive casket there is?
Do you feel it would be inappropriate to ask for money to help buy an expensive casket?
The flowers will die the Casket is forever!
Why will people send flowers to a funeral home instead of contributing to the most expensive casket there is?
People don't like to be questioned about how much they spend on something. Flowers have an anonymous price. Checks for any other item have a dollar value that exposes their gift value.
Reply:A lot of families will have donations in lieu of flowers....I would not find it inappropriate to ask for donations in lieu of...everyone knows that financial hardship usually follows the loss of the loved one. What are the people really going to do with all those flowers after it is over anyway? I think giving a card with cash is a great way to show your care and sympathy.
Reply:I disagree with the expensive casket. When I am dead, what do I care what I am buried in.
I think flowers are a waste of $ too.
If you want to commorate the life of the person who died, ask for donations to be made in their name to their favorite chairty or organization. Or if they died of a particular disease, have the donations made to the research organizations trying to cure the disease.
But if you are stuck on the expensive casket, I think it would be inappropriate to ask for money to help purchase it. But you could probably ask for contributions to offset the funeral costs if you really need it. Just becareful of the wording, and make good use of the money (ie not the most expense casket, not the biggest full color obit ad, etc).
Reply:I ask you this:"Will you only send me flowers when I'm lying in a grave?"...(Song I wrote)....Phantom of Deep Thought
Reply:No I help out when asked, that is the right thing to do. If someone is so lame not to have it all done so there loved ones don't have to go through all that, I will help. But do plan for your death its the most important purchase or urn you will ever buy.
Reply:People want to express thier individuality with flowers that can be personal. A casket will never be seen once the funeral is over.........personally I would rather people contributed to charity, now that really is providing a lasting legacy.
Reply:Being dead cost money. Ask for donatons but buy moderately priced stuff.
The flowers will die the Casket is forever!
Why will people send flowers to a funeral home instead of contributing to the most expensive casket there is?
People don't like to be questioned about how much they spend on something. Flowers have an anonymous price. Checks for any other item have a dollar value that exposes their gift value.
Reply:A lot of families will have donations in lieu of flowers....I would not find it inappropriate to ask for donations in lieu of...everyone knows that financial hardship usually follows the loss of the loved one. What are the people really going to do with all those flowers after it is over anyway? I think giving a card with cash is a great way to show your care and sympathy.
Reply:I disagree with the expensive casket. When I am dead, what do I care what I am buried in.
I think flowers are a waste of $ too.
If you want to commorate the life of the person who died, ask for donations to be made in their name to their favorite chairty or organization. Or if they died of a particular disease, have the donations made to the research organizations trying to cure the disease.
But if you are stuck on the expensive casket, I think it would be inappropriate to ask for money to help purchase it. But you could probably ask for contributions to offset the funeral costs if you really need it. Just becareful of the wording, and make good use of the money (ie not the most expense casket, not the biggest full color obit ad, etc).
Reply:I ask you this:"Will you only send me flowers when I'm lying in a grave?"...(Song I wrote)....Phantom of Deep Thought
Reply:No I help out when asked, that is the right thing to do. If someone is so lame not to have it all done so there loved ones don't have to go through all that, I will help. But do plan for your death its the most important purchase or urn you will ever buy.
Reply:People want to express thier individuality with flowers that can be personal. A casket will never be seen once the funeral is over.........personally I would rather people contributed to charity, now that really is providing a lasting legacy.
Reply:Being dead cost money. Ask for donatons but buy moderately priced stuff.
Do any of you know if there is a funeral flower arrangement book in the market?
I need to buy books that has a great deal of photos for funeral flowers arrangement. I also need to get books on room decorating tips for funeral parlor.
Do any of you know if there is a funeral flower arrangement book in the market?
Contact an established local florist in your area. The florist would have several books on funeral flowers and could either sell you some of their books or give you a good source of where to secure one. Also, look for the nearest Floral Syndicate store, or a First Distributor - these are wholesalers for florists - they have books on sympathy flowers by John Henry. The books show the flowers in the funeral home setting, so you could get ideas on decorating your funeral home.
Reply:There are some funeral flower arrangement catalogs online at any maj`/,tlower shop.
Reply:Go to:
https://www.afloral.com/index.asp?pageac... and click on "Tributes".
I'm not sure about the funeral parlor decorating.
Reply:the best books out there with funeral flowers are the wire service books. go on ebay and look for teleflora or ftd books that florists may be selling. if you are decorating the funeral home, is it for business purposes so clients will order from you or is it for the purpose of general decorating? i am curious, if you are doing this as a business, why dont you already have the books or pics of past work you have done. clients do not want to see a picture book they want to see pics of what you have done.
for decorating the funeral home, subtle arrangements in the color scheme that will coordinate with funeral homes style . there is no special decorating involved
Do any of you know if there is a funeral flower arrangement book in the market?
Contact an established local florist in your area. The florist would have several books on funeral flowers and could either sell you some of their books or give you a good source of where to secure one. Also, look for the nearest Floral Syndicate store, or a First Distributor - these are wholesalers for florists - they have books on sympathy flowers by John Henry. The books show the flowers in the funeral home setting, so you could get ideas on decorating your funeral home.
Reply:There are some funeral flower arrangement catalogs online at any maj`/,tlower shop.
Reply:Go to:
https://www.afloral.com/index.asp?pageac... and click on "Tributes".
I'm not sure about the funeral parlor decorating.
Reply:the best books out there with funeral flowers are the wire service books. go on ebay and look for teleflora or ftd books that florists may be selling. if you are decorating the funeral home, is it for business purposes so clients will order from you or is it for the purpose of general decorating? i am curious, if you are doing this as a business, why dont you already have the books or pics of past work you have done. clients do not want to see a picture book they want to see pics of what you have done.
for decorating the funeral home, subtle arrangements in the color scheme that will coordinate with funeral homes style . there is no special decorating involved
How do I send flowers to Osmond funeral?
Hi. I'd like to send a bouquet of flowers to the George Osmond funeral. I know it's to be held in one of the LDS churches. But I do not have the address or phone number. Would the local florist shop in Provo know where to direct it? Any advise? I've never sent flowers before.
How do I send flowers to Osmond funeral?
Oakhills LDS Stake Center,
925 E. North Temple Drive, Provo.
A viewing will begin at 10:30 a.m. with the funeral at 12:30 p.m. Burial will follow at the East Lawn Memorial Hills Cemetery in Provo.
Reply:The Osmond family asked that instead of sending flowers, people should make a donation to Children's Hospital Network. Report It
Reply:call the local florest, 99% of the time they know the funeral homes address. What you will need is, an amount you want to spend, a credit card, and a type of flower arrangement you would like ( they will recommend if you dont know) and what you would like to say on the card. They will take care of the rest.................
How do I send flowers to Osmond funeral?
Oakhills LDS Stake Center,
925 E. North Temple Drive, Provo.
A viewing will begin at 10:30 a.m. with the funeral at 12:30 p.m. Burial will follow at the East Lawn Memorial Hills Cemetery in Provo.
Reply:The Osmond family asked that instead of sending flowers, people should make a donation to Children's Hospital Network. Report It
Reply:call the local florest, 99% of the time they know the funeral homes address. What you will need is, an amount you want to spend, a credit card, and a type of flower arrangement you would like ( they will recommend if you dont know) and what you would like to say on the card. They will take care of the rest.................
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